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When get to know?

History placed a stamp for our first contact at 3:41pm, July 10, 1999.   It is the first mail Jay sent to Lucy via 'Dating on Saturday' of SHOTV.

 

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Where get to know?

Firstly, it should be via the fantastic internet, web site of Shanghai OTV.  Actually, Lucy was found by Jay in one of the most popular programs in Shanghai --- 'Dating on Saturday'.  Secondly,  the web site of Gezhi Middle School links both of us much more tightly cause we were schoolmates, from the same famous middle school in Shanghai . 

 

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How get to know?

Before starting the search engine of the shotv.com, Jay never thought he would send email to any one.  But there is a voice in his mind keeping persuading him "why not, why not have a try."  Then he sent the first email to Lucy.  Because the first, Lucy had her last name in the name description; the second, she had ICQ#, and the third, she inputted some words in the description as 'I am waiting for your mail...'

The first mail Lucy sent Jay kind of let him down.  She talked to Jay like a general talking to a soldier, commanding him that no phone, no meeting, and email only?!  Well, for Jay that did not matter at all.  In fact, if Lucy had invited him to make a friend with her, he really did not know how to see her.  And more importantly, when a girl had something to hide, it simply implied that she had something unusual, didn't it?

Jay told Lucy a fib initially.  He told her that he graduated from Shanghai University. The rests were all truth, including his middle school was Gezhi.  After having read a few Lucy抯 email, Jay made a conclusion that Lucy抯 English is well above 99.9% of college graduates in Shanghai.  Therefore, Jay asked her if she graduated from Shanghai Foreign Language University.  It turned out that she studied at the same university that Jay made up.  Well, after all, Shanghai University is not a small place. She had no way to verify the genuineness.   We accidentally became 'schoolmates'.

Based on ordinary pattern, our relationship would be no more than online friends, which meant that all the recognition of the other party was merely a name (has significant chance to be fake) and some words about films, or hobbies, or whatever unimportant at all.  However, something with the chance nearly zero did take place to us...  And it entirely changed our lives.  What was the chance for knowing whom the person you met online was, seeing how she looked like, and knowing where she lived and worked by browsing the websites, without the aid of search engines?  Actually, absolutely no useful information about Lucy may be retrieved by any most powerful search engines.  Who was she?  Who knew?  Maybe Lucy was a boy, who was making fun of me.  In the earlier time in August 1999, while Jay was scrolling down a list of members in the Gezhi club at Yahoo!, a very familiar name suddenly brought his immediate attention.  Both the last name and first name matched!  He figured out that the chance to be right was approximately one in fifty.  But when Jay looked at the email address, oh, God, he really couldn't  trust his eyes that it was true.  She concealed the fact that Lucy and Jay were real classmates, while chatting with him.  Lucy looked so beautiful on the only picture on the web page, sitting beside of our common mathematics teacher in Gezhi. Jay looked up and down at Lucy抯 picture for many times, encouraging himself that 'I must see her, know her, and finally spend days with her!' 

Jay decided to tell Lucy the complete truth about him!  It was like a gamble.  What if she turned me down?  Nevertheless, Jay knew one thing certain.  That was to be completely trusted by a girl, he need to completely trust her first; to be loved thoroughly by her, he must love her thoroughly first.  After releasing a few personal information to Lucy to surprise her, Jay as expectedly got the chance to tell her that he was living in the US when she asked me who he was.  Jay told her that do notify him when she came to study in the US, because he knew that Lucy was preparing applying for US graduate schools.  But his mind was clear that her coming to the US within two years was a beautifully wishful thinking. Then what happened? We must have met afterwards; otherwise, we would not be together today.  Right?  But how?  It was a miracle. God arranged us to meet in the US far quicker than we ever imagined?

Two weeks passed quickly?  A short email was delivered to Jay's inbox.  The content was simple.  Lucy said she possibly would have a business training opportunity in the U.S. in September.  Jay was indeed astonished!  Although the opportunity might be cancelled by any reason at any time, the sixth sense told him that she would come for sure.  Jay would welcome a girl from the same middle school that he went to, but never seen or known before.  What a challenging life he was facing!  And what had a great uncertainty Lucy was facing!  We two since that time had experienced so much hardships that any tiny obstacle could separate us.  But we depended on our beliefs and punctiliousness having made our dreams come true?  It was a legendary story that we felt so amazingly similar to the story of the movie Titanic.  And it was real.  It took place to Lucy and Jay.  In fact, Lucy and Jay抯 story was more complicated than the story of Rose and Jack抯.

->>To be continued...

 

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Why?

Jay:

Your Trust, Passion, and Wisdom (not smartness) are the three foundations of my love to you.  I trust that you are the angel that the God has chosen for me.  And I have the maximum confidence that with you, Lucy, we may build our warm family with highest happiness. 

Lucy:

I am strongly attracted by your Kindness, Consideration, Gentleness and Maturity.  I really appreciate what you've done for our love and for me and  I do believe that you are the one the God made for me especially and vice versa.  Let's cherish for the millennium love and pray for our future life... May God bless us!

 

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What is the milestone?

Lucy's business trip from Sep.16 to Nov.11 in US was a crucial breakthrough in their relationship.  It was their first time to meet each other in person which came out with their commitments

 

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